Care ConvoCards

Questions of clarity, courage, and meaning for the relationships at the center of your world.

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Can I help you with any household tasks like paying bills online or ordering weekly groceries?

care coordination
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Aging Parents
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What parts of care could I take on from far away?

care coordination
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Self-Reflection
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Are we on the same page about handling caregiving costs? How will we approach any disagreements?

care coordination
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Sibling
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As they age, what parts of our parents' care feel doable for you, and what feels like a no?

care coordination
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Do you have any funds or benefits set aside in case you need long-term care?

finances & legal
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Aging Parents
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Can I help financially if needed—and have I mapped out what that could look like?

finances & legal
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Self-Reflection
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Are you in a place to help our parents financially if needed? What would work for you?

finances & legal
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Sibling
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Do you feel clear and comfortable with our parent(s)' medical directives and final wishes, and your role in honoring them?

finances & legal
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Sibling
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How do you want to live in this season of life?

quality of life
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Aging Parents
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What kind of care and support are you most hoping for?

quality of life
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Aging Parents
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What would make you feel comfortable if we brought in a professional caregiver?

quality of life
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Aging Parents
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When the time comes, how would you like to spend your final days?

end of life
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Aging Parents
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