Questions of clarity, courage, and meaning for the relationships at the center of your world.
Can I help you with any household tasks like paying bills online or ordering weekly groceries?
What parts of care could I take on from far away?
Are we on the same page about handling caregiving costs? How will we approach any disagreements?
As they age, what parts of our parents' care feel doable for you, and what feels like a no?
Do you have any funds or benefits set aside in case you need long-term care?
Can I help financially if needed—and have I mapped out what that could look like?
Are you in a place to help our parents financially if needed? What would work for you?
Do you feel clear and comfortable with our parent(s)' medical directives and final wishes, and your role in honoring them?
How do you want to live in this season of life?
What kind of care and support are you most hoping for?
What would make you feel comfortable if we brought in a professional caregiver?
When the time comes, how would you like to spend your final days?
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